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anonymous
writes:Hey people, I seriously need help .. Ive recently fallen for a good friend of mine but we really shouldnt go out.. There is almost everything wrong with this relationship..*She is my ex girlfriends best mate*She is my best mates ex girlfriend*Ive just got out of a big relationship to mess a bit of fun*Im leaving in august for 3 and a half years to join the marinesBut we kissed a few days ago and i cant stop thinking about it. Shes in my head all the time and i dont know what to do. She makes me feel like a small boy in a sweetie shop.. Does anyone think theres any point in having a go at things? Or should we leave it as just carrying about ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey people, just thought I'd comment on that last persons message.. In particular, no. 4...
At the moment i feel like if i cant be with her, whats the point in being here.. Its not as dramatic as i put it, but i cant find an easier way to say it.. I would never ask her to break friendships, and the last thing i want is to loose my best friend, but practically every minute i think about her, i dont know what to do..
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reader, ryanjohn  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Y'all kissed! Talk it over with her. See how she feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): 1 If you want to keep your best friend do not mess around with his ex.
2. If you want her to keep her best friend do not encourage her to mess around with her best friend's ex.
3. If you are leaving for a long time she shouldn't be asked to destroy friendships for you...even if you don't ask in so many words.
4. If this all gets messy (and I strongly suspect it will) you will have an additional distraction when you leave to go to the marines...this could be very very dangerous.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Can I just ask, if you did go for it and forget all the other issues that are stopping you, what would happen if come August and its time for you to go but you find you've fallen in love with her and can't bare to be without her?
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