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*itty0525
writes:I should clarify my question:I have been with my guy for almost 4 years. When i met him his mom was already living with him (moved in since last relationship of his ended. As the time went on and we started having serious feelings for each other i asked him if hell be willing to live together and have a familly his answer was YES (now i think it was just something to say to shut me up...)For all theese years hes been coming over one day a week and friday and saturday. Sunday he goes home so his kids could comeover. Now after a long time i am ready to build something of my own and i realy need help ( single mom of 2 kids i live in my mothers basement!!!!). I tried to talk to him but now he sais that he cant leave his mom alone ( he has 6 other siblings!!!!) and he cant move out till she is gone..... His mom is an independant woman, the only thing he does for her is bring up groceries, bring down the garbage bags and pull her car out of the garage THATS IT. And i think that even living with me he can still continue to help her we would not move to another country!!!! So... my question is should i stay and see where will it take us or just let him go now because he just doesnt want to have commited and responsible relationship????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Khenygal  +, writes (22 March 2010):
Maybe talk to him before making big decisions and also if you love him think you will find a way to work things out just talk to the man first plus you know him beter than us, does he love you? Well i believe love is the winner even though sometimes it is hard, thats just part of life.
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