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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hiya all at cupid Im being stupid hear but theres this guy i like a lot slept with him like 4 times,Talk throughout the day but thats only short conversatings Anyway the only way i think i can see him is ask him for sex and yes last week i did ask him loads and he always ends up saying no, i said to him other day did i do something wrong last time i slept with you and he replyed hell no am hard even thinking about my cock inside ur mouth, i replyed well do something about it then with a lol at the endand still did not get me anywhere i was always told by other relationships that guys love 2 b asked for sex well not this guy lol he always comes up with some escuse about y not what am i doing wrong?do anyone think its a way of no i dont like u?maybe just leave it and sees what he says?or maybe just im really crap at sex ---lolPlease leave a comment on ur ideas thank you tammy xxxxx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 March 2010):
Sounds like he wants more then just sex casual sex from a chick is great for a one night stand but if you keep having eventually your feelings will get deeper for each other. PLus the fact that he doesnt have to chase you and he cna seemingly have sex with you whenever he wants makes you less desirable to him. i suggest stop asking him,
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
Strangely enough not all blokes are into sex in a way we all seem to think or are led to believe they are, they can be just as confusing as us girls.
I would try getting him to spend time with you without the 'sex' thing being apart of it, he could be nervous and wondering if this friendship/relationship you have is just a sex thing for you and want to see a different side to what you're wanting from him.
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