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male
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30-35,
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writes:Hi, i need advise on how to tell a girl how i feel but theres two problems that are in my way they are that she doesn't really know me as my friends do but we talk abit in class, also she is smarter than me im not jealous or out its just i dont wanna sound stupid in front of her if we are in middle of a conversation. i would like feed back on how to approach her and talk alot more to her with her being comfortable taking to her, also i do go gym alot and i do look after myself with my health so im not a potato but im not the greatest looking guy aswell and my confidence is low with girls im not very good talking with girls because i some times say the wrong girlThanks
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reader, kayli +, writes (23 March 2010):
 hey well first things first is to be confident! I know you can't just click your fingers and it will happen but try look at yourself in the mirror and say yeah am no stud but I have this or I have that, whatever makes you, you!
so this girl knows who you are but not as a friend? well everyone has their good points and bad points and there should never be a point in your life where you think your not good enough for someone...yeah you might not be as smart as her but that's a part of you and no one should ever make you change who you are..
Anyway, why don't you just continue chatting to her in class maybe a bit more than you have previously and see where that leads to, if not send her a note or ask her if you would like to hand out and get to know each other a bit better! This way she will see who how your friends do.
I hope this helps a bit, take care
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 What you are describing are not really problems. It's very flattering to ask a girl out when you don't even know her. Tell her you want to get to know her better and take her out for lunch. She either tells you yes or no. If she isn't interested in you it's not the end of the world. There is no need to prepare a script. It may not suit the moment. It's not good to sound rehearsed. You can prepare for 3 kinds of answers though 1. Yes! 2. No. 3. I am busy today. Ask her for another time. If she looks like she's finding other excuses then you know she's not the one for you.
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