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*itty0525
writes:i have been with my guy for almost 4 years, but anytime wee talk about moving in together he sais he has to live with his mom to help her!!!!Do i stay with him and see where it aill go or do i try to find my happiness somewhere else???
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reader, boo22  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 He sounds like he's wasting your time in terms of a serious relationship. Look around for someone else who wants a commitment cos he doesn't. You can do much better.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
 That's what I wanted to check, make sure he wasn't at home helping her in a carer kind of way.As its not and its really silly things that she can actually do herself then I don't really see why he needs to be there to help her.I think he's using his Mum as an excuse rather than just being honest about not wanting to move out of home.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 March 2010):
If she's got no physical affliction and he won't leave home, you might as well end it now.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 March 2010):
It depends on what he means by help her. If she has an affliction, then I understand that. If not, and it's just a case of him staying there, then you need to move on. It depends on what he means by help.
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reader, kitty0525 +, writes (22 March 2010):
kitty0525 is verified as being by the original poster of the question His mom s been living with him since brake up of his prior relationship. His mom is independent all he helps her with is takeout garbage and pull her car out of garage. But i think he can still help her even if we live together we can move closer to her place!!!!
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
Can I ask what reason/capacity he is needing to help her?
I think its best to know that before being able to give a true answer on this.
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