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I can't orgasm during sex. Is it my fault?

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Question - (22 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 19 years old and I have been with my partner for 3 years now. We are comfortable with eachother and have very good comunication going. My problem is that I never can orgasm during sex. I was reading this article that says if you masturbate on your stomach you get some sort of syndrome that makes you unable to orgasm during intercourse. I am very worried and paranoid now. Is it my fault? I am very relaxed during sex and he tries hard (not excessing ofc) to please me.

Please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

I just want to thank you all for answering and your help. Cheers!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010):

Another aspect that plays into an orgasm for most women is a mental aspect. Sometimes your mind can stop you from having one.

The suggestion about using toys is a good idea. Even masturbating while he is in you may help. It sounds like you have good communication so try some different things. I'm sure he'll be on board as long as he is included. If he isn't, then there is a bigger problem.

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A female reader, Sad Girl !!! United States +, writes (22 March 2010):

Sad Girl !!! agony auntI no how u feel . when i asked my doctor she said that there are alot of women like that out here it ain't your fault at all.

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