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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey i am a very jelous person but i only am when it comes to my boyfriend. I dont let it afect our relationship cuz i keep most of my jelousy inside. Cuz most of it is stuff that he cant help like girls liking him an stuff like that. But it eats me up on the inside thinking of some chick telling him stuff and flirting and trying to kiss him. He does what he can he says i have a girlfriend when they do that and moves when they try and kiss him. But it eats me up inside how can i get over that?
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reader, Joeyxxox  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 You need to stop worrying so much, you're the one he is with and he obviously isn't interested in anyone else.
You don't want to end up pushing him away which is what might happen if the situation gets any worse.
Also just make sure you communicate with him if you're worried about anything, talk things over and put your mind at rest.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 You need to find your trust for him within yourself. Once that trust is there you will know that no matter what anyone does he will stay loyal to you. If this happens often and he does his best to let the other girls down I think that is an excellent start to the trusting of him. There is only so much he can do since I'm sure he doesn't want to be rude to them.
Also even when you do trust him you will never and do not have to trust girls around him but by trusting him to handle it appropriatly it should help you get through it.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
 You need to stop over-thinking things, when a thought pops into your mind you need to distract your mind onto other things.
This is obviously something, a worry inside you not a worry bought on by the way he's behaving so you need to find a way to control it.
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