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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi aunts. ok so my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship for the last one year. a few weeks ago,i decided to try to spice things up and i started textin him dirty,(kind of like phone sex)and he responded very well. he even called me the next day and told me how he liked it,and would love to do it often. so i let it rest for a few weeks before we did that again, until yesterday,we were chatting,and he started textin back dirty. i replied,but he told me after some time,he wasnt into it.then he started textin that he didnt really 'do it' when he said he was, and he doesnt like to 'do it' at all and has never done it.(not the phone sex,the 'touching yourself' thing.) i told him it was okay if he didnt want to,i was just trying to spice our LDR. he said in a kinda rude way that i was not trying to spice things up between us,i was trying to spice things up with myself. that hurt me,and i stopped chatting. what i want to know is why he lead me on,if he wasnt interested about it? he was the one who was always initiating it after i started this whole thing. is it true that he has never pleasured himself? and if he truly doesnt, what does he think of me now that i wrote very explicit stuff to him? Does he think am a nympho? A psycho maybe? Why the hell did he lead me on? to make a fool out of me? Guys please help. its really disturbing me.
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 I would be confused as well going by what you just wrote.
He could have said he enjoyed it as he might have felt it was something you liked and wanted and he wanted to please you but the fact he continued to initiating it from that first time tells me that maybe something else has made him think its wrong to do that kind of thing and therefore backed away a little on it.
I do find it quite hard to believe he's never touched himself even if it was just once to try out of curiousity.
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