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anonymous
writes:i have a girlfriend and i really love her alot. the problem is that i dont know how to treat her right, without making her feel like that i am using her for my own good. i dont want to make her feel that way at all. i need adive on how to treat her with rrespect and not make her feel like im using her. please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): Here is all we women want ... pay close attention.
"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back, even though you hung up on him, who thinks you are perfect even though he knows the worst things about you, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when your in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup, one who is constantly reminding you of how much he loves you and how lucky he is to have you, and the one who turns to his friends and says, 'That's her!'
( I didnt write this, its written by annonomous )
This is what my fiance does for me, I know I am blessed to have him in my life. I thank him at least once a week for loving me the way he does. Just appreciate her, its all we women ever really want from our partner.
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reader, Luckie128 +, writes (22 March 2010):
Well I'm not sure why she would feel like you're "using her". Is it for the sex, money? You also left out how long you're been together now.
The best way is to listen to her. When you listen to a person speak and show concern, she will know you care about her and respect her feelings.
Ofcourse you could tell her how much she means to you.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): hi.. just make her feel special! tell her she's beautiful, buy her flowers, tell her how much she means to you, call her just to say "i love you", girls fall for stuff like that. i know i do... :-) make her feel loved and wanted. and if by using, you mean sexually, agree to not have sex for a while if thats what she wants.
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