A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,Ok, I might be making something out of nothing but I'd like some opinions on this.My boyfriend and I are both actors, and a while back he was in a play. He said he got on very well with the Lighting Assistant and she was gay and had a girlfriend.Now, the other day I looked through his phone ( I felt he'd been a bit distant and wanting to know if his ex had been texting, which has happened before ) and this girl had been texting all the time saying things like - "Hey baby, do you wanna do something tonight?" and "I was just thinking how you had to go" and leaving him "night night xx" messages?! Now,maybe I'm paranoid and maybe she's just a very "lovie" person but should I be right to feel a little weirded out by this? Is she really a lesbian? It just worries me that he wouldn't tell me about this. It's news to me!What doesn't help in my situation is that my ex cheated on me with my friend and I found texts from her so maybe this isn't helping my judgment. I know my boyfriend loves me, he is always proving it. And when I confronted him about it, he seemed ok - not defensive - and just explained who she was and that she was gay so there's nothing to worry about - they just bumped into each other and he helped her move a couple of things to her house. I just not really happy that ever since she's been constantly texting him.Am I being paranoid or should I be looking out for something?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I'd remember MY name if I were you. Sounds rather fishy to me.
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