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writes:Right where to start. Well me and my boyfriend broke up around a month ago after spending 6 months together and I still find it so hard. We were so close and cared so much for each other but out of the ordinary he dumped me by text. He then messed me about for a while because he new I was and am still in love wth him because he was my first real boyfriend. He constantly starts arguements and fights because I went out with a boy one night and says he hates me and wants me to die since the night hefound out. And he keeps rubbing in that he has metsomeone else and I just can't be myself anymore I covered up for to long. Please help I already tried to talk but he's not having it
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone am just so hurt and he says he can't stand the look of anymore and seein me brings back to may memories
but the things yous have said are really good and I will take on board
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): if you were realy close he would not be able to break up with just a text he would half to tell you to your face .
what is going on is he was messing with someone els the hole time . im a guy so i know just by what you said.
i know i would never do that to a girl i loved or spent so much time with. i understand your first because i still want my first and it has been over 10 years ( 26 now ) and ever girl i meet has to look like her .
you may go with the cource of life wanting him and may get him back or maybe not . but it seems that he is keeping or not telling somthing and the anger says to me somthing bad he is mad at him self and is taking it out on you . my advice would be to stop all contact with him for a while and tell him there is somthing he needs to tell you before you even see or talk to him again and be carfull he sounds like a boy with lots of problems and could take it out on you with violence
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Change your number, you don't need this screwball in your life.
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reader, Chantelle x +, writes (19 February 2010):
 He is trying to be a 'lad' and act cool but to be honest i think that he still has feelings for you and jealousy is written all over him. You need to tell him out right that you love him and from his answer, your future is decided.
He shouldnt have said the hurtful things that he did, but lads and men are strange and have strange and weird ways of showing their affection for someone.
Just be straight with him, then if needs be you can move on and just be happy in life.
Good luck.x.
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reader, goodguy11  +, writes (19 February 2010):
What an a$$hole. You need to get away from this guy and cut all contact with him. Delete every contact info you have of him and block his number so he can't text you. If you happen to bump into him ignore him completely don't even look at him. If he lays one finger on you tell someone a teacher you trust your parents well basically an adult you can trust that can do something about it. The fact that he says he wants you to die (kidding or not kidding) around is a big red flag that this guy is a psycho. So I would be careful and don't be alone with him at all. Sorry you have to go through this but chances are he's not going to leave you alone until you have an adult to do something about it. Even if he's emotionally abusing you he's still hurting you so tell someone if it gets really bad don't hide it ok.
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