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writes:I'm so nervous !!!. I'm 25 ( almost 26 ) and i like a guy who just turned 21 on Wednesday. He rang me today and said he is going out with a group of friends tomorow night, and asked if i wanted to go with them. I said i would, and he is going to call me again tomorrow to arrange it. I know we have an age age, but i really like him !!. They are meeting mid afternoon and probably staying out all night, as they are going out round our home town first, then onto another area about 30 minutes away. I havent seen him for a while, and i'm hoping something will happen between us, although i dont want to get my hopes up. I can also be a bit shy sometimes too, and i dont go out drinking very often. I hope it will be ok !. I'm trying to sort out what to wear too !. I'm not really sure what he thinks of me, but he does text me a lot, and even puts kisses on his messages, if that means anything, and there have bena few occasions where he has phoned me in the middle of the night, although i was asleep lol.Can anyone give me any advice ? .Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): i'm not sure what he thinks of me. I sent him a message yesterday to ask if he was still going out and he said he was but he didnt know what time he was going because he was still hungover from the night before. However, i didnt hear from him at all last night, and he hasnt text me today either. He hasn't really been contacting me as much as he used to lately. I'm wondering if he might have been put off, because he also went out the night before, as i said, and he rang to see if i wanted to go with him then as well, but i couldnt go then. I want to ask him if he wants to go out next weekend, but i dont want to seem like i am chasing him .what should i do ?
In the past, he has asked me to send him a photo of myself to his mobile phone, and he said " i think some girls with short hair look nice- like you ". And when we first met, his friend, who i didnt like, was trying to chat me up, but i kept looking at him instead, and he said " so how come you were looking at me when my friend was chatting you up ? ". He has also sent some funny texts to me sometimes , some were rude jokes !. A while ago though, he told me he was seeing someone but broke up with her coz she messed him around, and he told me that he was useless at picking girls to go out with. I also told him once that i wanted something to happen between us, and he said " i know we're friends at the minute, but we'll see how it goes ". I'm not sure if the age gap is a problem for him. As i said, i am five years older than him, but he thinks i look younger than i am, or does he just like me as a friend ?. Or perhaps he is quite immature ?. I feel like he is giving me mixed messages.
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reader, Mia Rio +, writes (19 February 2010):
Maybe take a friend with you if you can, that means you might be able to relax a wee bit more. Just be yourself, you want him to like you for who you are. Get a little tipsy to boost your confidence lol remember to chat to his friends and try and get involved in the conversation even if you feel shy. Wear something you know you look great in! Mia
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Try to relax and just be the person that you always are since that is who he wants to introduce to his friends. Go with the flow, try to put a few words in after you sit back and listen to how these people are and how they act. My gf was so nervous at meeting my friends for the first time and I said it was nothing to worry about. Because I was happy with her just like he is probably really happy that you are going his friends will see that and welcome you because of the way you make him feel.
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