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writes:My ex-friend is a guy and has told all his friends that I tried to have sex with him. We used to like each other a lot and then I went out with a guy and he got jealous so went out with a girl, and then made up loads of rumours about me. People think I'm really desperate for sex because he's not exactly goodlooking and this has actually prevented me from getting another boyfriend. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Oh dear, the school rumour mill strikes again.
The only way out of this, as i se it, is too prove he is a lier. That shouldnt be too hard for you, just use the same rumour mill and let people know that hes a lier and that you wouldnt let him touch you.
Turnabout is fairplay you know
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reader, MissSasha +, writes (19 February 2010):
 I believe you should tell everyone the truth. This guy is delibrately being manipulative to you.By telling everyone the truth, everyone will see what a jerk this boy is and know to steer clear of him. You will find a boyfriend eventually who will treat you right.
MissSasha 15
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Hello, I have been a victim to rumors and gossiping myself, and from this i learnt that by overly defending yourself it can make people think that your lying, Dont waste your breath. Its awful that this friendship has had to turn into something nasty. However do not lower yourself to the level that he has gone to because you hurt him, rise above it. People who beleive these rumors instead of coming to you arent the ones who you need to worry about. If it has stopped a future relationship then that is unfortunate, but maybe it wasn't meant to be, as if it was "the one" they would beleive and trust you over any rumors. Good luck x
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