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writes: Surprise surprise!! another guy with issues about his girls sexual past. Her number is a okay in my book (I'm her 7th) at close to 30 years old. However, five of those fellas were in a six month period her last semester of college. Three of those things were one time things with college friends, one was a two time thing (once fooling around second time they did the 'nasty') and the last turned into a six year relationship. Is this pattern common (to go on a spree, so to speak)? Amongst Dear cupid readers, what was your most fertile year of sexual experimentation? How many is the most you've had in a one year period? Could make for an interesting pole er I mean poll tee hee!!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 And yes - you're right that these little bursts of being overly friendly usually mean that people are working through some issues. Your girlfriend's pattern sounds very normal indeed I think that she has been rather more conservative and reserved with her charms than most girls in the US. Lucky you.
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (20 February 2010):
In a year? 37 give or take.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Oh, get a grip of yourself. 'Okay in your book'? Get over your inflated ego. Who cares what your books are? Good luck finding yourself a virgin at your age. Give the girl a break, it's not your past, not your issues, not your right to say or judge her for anything. Give the girl a break, get over it, ot leave her so she can find someone better, more mature, and more accepting and caring. It's you with the problem. Have fun with your 'pole, I mean POLL, tee hee'. Moron.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): The pattern is common. I would call it slutty. But cheating on a faithful partner in a relationship is very common. Guys lying to young girls to get them into the sack and then leaving them is also common. Getting herpes and spreading it to several other people before you become aware of it is common.
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reader, Rosy  +, writes (19 February 2010):
To be honest it doesnt matter, or shouldnt. Its in her past and cant be changed and it shows she can trust u as she told u the truth. Look at time in her life as just one of them things. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Good god man, get a little perspective!! It's not like she's been sleeping around!!I met my now wife when she was 20 and she'd been with 13 guys. Quick bit of math here - she would have been at around 50 by the time she was 30 if she had said single over the years. That practically makes your girl a virgin by comparison.
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