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30-35,
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writes: I really have a big problem, because I really can't admit that I really do like my professor, and I am not already the kind of student before, when I still do not have the feelings for him yet. I am a first year college student and I'm 16, also, my professor's age is 24. Really, the first 3 months of his teaching in our class is that I really felt nothing, but just this previous month, I felt something over my professor. Is this normal? For ever since in my life he is just the first guy I've ever liked. And I can't even look fixedly, when every time he is looking at me. I feel shy, and most importantly I don't want to be hurted by a guy.Please I really don't know what to do.. Help!!!
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reader, Tarawr +, writes (19 February 2010):
No, no, and NO! Do not peruse anything with him. He can get in a lot of trouble if he is caught doing anything with a student. If you really care for him, do not make a move. It WILL end badly.
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reader, pancakes rule +, writes (19 February 2010):
It's completely normal to feel like that.
Crushing on your teacher is something that happens to almost everyone at one stage or another.
Just enjoy your crush, maybe use it as motivation to do well in his class, but don't do anything about it. It's just wrong to have a relationship with him, try to relax and you'll be fine.
good luck
xx
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reader, Chantelle x +, writes (19 February 2010):
In my honest opinion i really wouldnt go there. He could lose his job and you could jeopardise your education if anything was to occur. Just see this as a crush and find someone more your own age. You will be happier and that is guaranteed. I had a crush on my PE teacher when i was your age, as much as he looked at me strangely, i knew nothing could happen and i knuckled down with my work and just focused on my education. I also settled down with a lad nearer my own age and we are still together to this day so it does work.
Hope this is helpful. Good luck. xx
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