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writes: Hi there, me and other half havent had sex now in almost two months, he is under an immense amount of stress at work at the moment and when he comes home on a weekend all he wants to do is sleep. Im starting to worry now that its me and that he isnt attracted to me. Is it normal for relationships to go through dry spells whilst one of the party is under stress?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Yes stress can make you feel this way. Hell it happens to me. I dont know about guys or anyone else but for me i need to feel emotionally stable and secure to enjoy intimacy. Otherwise im just not into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): seriously, you do not need to worry that its you! if it was he wouldnt be with you. my boyfriend wa the same, he went through a really stressfull period at work and we didnt have sex for a month, and when we tried he couldnt get it up because he was just so stressed. i was angry, and felt rejected, i was sure it was me. but i spoke to him about it, he promised me it wasnt me, after this wor thing got sorted out, we were back like it used to be, sex, sex, sex! so just dont worry, chill and give him time, you could try by giving him a massage to relax him, then go from there.
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