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30-35,
*orsefan14
writes:So uhmmm Im confused... I'm not sure if I'm bi or straight. I really don't know how to tell if I am or not. Would anyone be able to help me out with this? Tell me what to look for or how I should feel or something? I've been unsure for a couple months now and I'm started to get frustrated... Help please? Reply to this Question
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (19 February 2010):
You don't need a label. You are who you are: straight, bi or lesbian. It may change over time, at the college I attended some girls were entirely lesbian then became straight after graduating and got married. I was the opposite and discoverd my bi side in my mid-twenties after being married for a couple of years (and yes, hubby is OK with it). The most important thing is to be with people that respect you and contribute to your growth and happiness. It may or may not be sexual; it may or may not be love. But give respect and warmth and if it is not given in return, move on.
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reader, Hard_decision  +, writes (19 February 2010):
Apparently 1 in every 2 girls is bi or has the urge to pursue another female...like the other poster said, if you get turned on by a girl, think she is sexy and would like to mess around with her...most probably you are bi. Experiment...but you are still very young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Trust you gut instinct. If you find yourself turned on by someone of the same sex and you want to touch them/kiss them/or more.. chances are you are bi.
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