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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm black and i realy like this muslim girl and she rely like me to but we dont no what to do we both no her family will go take kindly to this but we both love each other what should we do?
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reader, True*Blue +, writes (26 February 2010):
key word - you 'like' her, not love her? her family loves her? is she willing to risk the rejection and all the stuff that is going to happen? look ahead. how will it be in 5, 10 years if you go ahead togehter - can you see beingwith her then? she shouldbe able to judge how her family will be in that time frame.. think it through.. your only young. if she's 'the one' then i seriously urge you consider the repercussions. i wouldn't convert for the sake of a relationship - it has to be something you truly belive in, or your reversion wont last. my mates dad married a woman of a different colour/religion. she was a muslim for 20 years until she 'got bored'.
if you end it, it'll hurt, but what don't kill you makes you stronger. you've loved once, you'll love again!
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (19 February 2010):
Be respectful, careful and cautious until you and your girlfriend are capable of being on your own, then make up your minds. No one, not even parents, have the right to tell someone eho they can love and live with. But be respectful, act more mature and adult than they will, but be firm when the time comes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): i dont think it is to do with race i think its the fact i am not muslim
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reader, imnicebuttdim +, writes (19 February 2010):
im Muslim and my GF is black, we have been together for 7 years strong now.
both my parents and her parents dont agree with our relationship but as we live together and they can see we are happy they let us live our life. we are independant and dont ask or rely on anything.
depends on what you both want and how long have you had a relationship, love sees no colour or creed and I dont think religion is going to be the problem, I think culture will be more of an issue as t was for us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): I don't know how old are you but if you are old enough to decide for yourself I would say as a muslim you should consider becoming a muslim as islam encompasses all creeds, colors, and races and if her family are true muslims they will not object to your color.
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