A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been going out with my girlfriend for quite a while now and I love her to bits, the problem is if I'm not with her I suddenly feel depressed for no reason. I find myself constantly worrying about losing her. I try to think on the positive side but I keep going back to thinking about the relationship and the flaws within it... they keep standing out more than anything no matter how small they are. When I'm not with her I stay at home loathing around all day and feeling depressed.I need some complex advice, not just "think on the positive side" because it never works. I don't want to completely smother her and tell her about these things but I just want to be able to get on with the relationship and accept that I'm not with her all the time and act like I did before having her as a girlfriend but I can't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): You need to tell her how you feel so that she can give you reassurance. It's ok to feel unsure when your in a new relationship. It shows that your feelings are growing. But do share your thoughts and emotions with her. In a healthy relationship communication is key!
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