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writes:I am not sure if whats wrong with me, I am in my late 20s, never had a boyfriend and for the first time ever I have fallen for someone like truly fallen for him, the problem is, is that he is a self confessed womaniser, but he is so confident I cant say no to him, we have kissed loads and he wants to take things further and so do I, I dont mind when he touches me with me clothes on but the last time we got together and were kissing he took my top off and I kind of freaked out, I get really turned on by him but I just cant seem to let go and I dont know why, I know he just wants sex and I dont mind (which I know is wrong and I should wait until someone loves me but like I said I am in my late 20s, I have waited long enough) but I just feel awkward and I haven't got a clue what to do, he asks me to do things and I want to but I'm not sure how and because he is experienced I dont want to look stupid. Has anyone got any tips to help me out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Please don't do it with him, your feelings will be soooo hurt after you have sex with him and then he is done with you! You will carry this memory with you for the rest of your life :(
Find a good man and forget about this one, the reason he is so self confident is because he has experience and churns through women. No woman is special to him, they are only conquests and once he has them, he looses interest. I know, I had experience with one of these guys.
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reader, miss ambitious  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Virginity is a beautiful thing. Until you feel right about the person you are losing it to, do not do it. Always remember you can not miss what you have never had.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): You waited a long time to start having sex. Somewhere in your mind a little voice is telling you this guy isnt the right one x
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reader, kellyO +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Hi,
You obviously dont feel right about this and probably with good reason. Follow your instinct. wait till you feel right. Be patient and observant for the right man when he comes alongs.It will happen
Hugs
Kelly
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