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writes:is it possible for my boyfriend of seven years to love me but yet he cheated on me got another woman pregnant he tells me and everyone around that he loves me but i am really hurt and scared that its just words because how could you hurt someone you love so bad
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): He may love you nut his actions are unexceptable. You let him know that even if he admits to it. He may have to suffer to realize that what he's done is not cool. But your feeling are at risk and you should put that first because you obviously cant depend on him to care about them.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 You hurt the one you loved the most.That is especially true in many cases.
He is only human . He came into a situation where he did not handle himself well .Maybe, it is his first time facing that test and he failed.
Sometimes it does happen and they regret it but it is too late . He may not have the intention to cheat but he was in the wrong place and wrong time .
Some couples forgive and move on and become stronger.
In life there are a lot of temptations and no one is perfect. We meet different kinds of situations and we may not know how to deal with it.
It is easy to judge others when you sit on a high horse because we do not face the same conditions and temptations as he does.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 Yes.
It is certainly possible that he loves you but he has a flaw, a weakness. You have to decide whether his loving you is good enough and whether your love for him is sufficient to overcome this weakness.
The fact that he has cheated in the past does make it more likely that he will do so again in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Look if I was in your position I would sit down with him tell him how you feel and why. Then if you find yourself not needing him anymore you could. Move on and be happy known that you talked it all through with him
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 February 2010):
He doesn't love you. His actions say that he doesn't. Be brave and move on from him. It's more likely he's just using you.
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