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anonymous
writes:Hello I hope someone can help!!I have been with my partner for three years. I am a virgin but he has had around four sexual partners and also has a child from another relationship. The problem I have is that he will not have sex with me!!I asked him to have sex with me three times in the past year but he keeps coming up with the following excuses- he feels that I am not ready even though I ask him to!- timing i.e my flatmates are about or we have to get up early the next day- he is tired.Although he has never had sex with me- he does help me masturbate with his hands. BUT he will go for days and not do this if he says I am acting up or if we have had a falling out. I feel really rejected by him as he has had a one night stand in the past and had a child with his first girlfriend and I know he has an amzaing sex life with his ex girlfriend whom he was with before me. When it comes to me he just will not have sex! What do I do? I have talked to him about how it makes me feel, I have practically begged him to make love to me and I have tried to wear sexy clothes in bed, and tried fun outfits and various other things but I just cannot get him to have sex with me!Just a bit of background- I am in my early 20s, very athletic figure as I am really into running, long dark gorgeous hair, pretty face and I love clothes etc so always look nice for him. (When he comes home from work I make sure I am dressed nicely, smell nice and have a meal cooked!) Also, in case anyone thinks I'm a bimbo I'm not- I am currently doing a neuroscience degree! PLEASE HELP ME!!! WHAT IS GOING ON?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): This sounds like it requires therapy or something. It's good that he values you enough not to wanna risk taking advantage of you, but this sounds too far and too old for that. When a 24yo woman has a live-in serious BF that won't have sex with her, it's gotta be something else.Don't assume the problem is automatically even about you. It might be his own hangup over sex with his past GFs and what it meant or did to their relationship afterwards.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): He must be mad,I would love to have taken my wifes virginity but unfortuantly she had 3 blokes before me..It sounds like he could be nervous or maybe seeing someone else..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Can I just say I am not 13!!!
I am 24!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Why would anyone think you are a bimbo? You sound like the ideal girlfriend!
Do you think he might be getting it elsewhere?
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