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writes:My ex boyfriend and i recently broke up. Needless to say things didn't go the way i planned it. My ex ex before this one was always there for me but he did a really good job of getting his life on track while i went to another relationship and was acting so happy and just thought i was on top of the world and that i was going to marry this person we spend all our time together and during while i was with him i put my ex boyfriend through hell i invited him to places me and my boyfriend were so i could show off how happy i was without him i used him, i told him very mean things like i didn't love him and never did and that he didn't even count, and i just thought i had things so together. But then the ex i recently broke up with he turned his back on me and is now doing the same thing to me that i did to my ex hes acting so happy with his new girlfriend he tells me he doesn't have feelings anymore just all the things i did, so that's my karma.But hes been really horrible to me since the breakup he accuses me of stalking him which i don't he made out with me and then went back to his current girlfriend hes been a jerk so i gave him a piece of my mind when we broke up and probably said some mean things and now that's all he talks about is how i called him names so I'm the fucked more fucked up one. But see thats what i thought about my ex-ex i thought it was all his fault n that i had it all together but when it all came crashing down and not like i had planned or imagined he was there for me and my ultimate slap in the face was that he took the time to work on himself and move on and didnt even find a serious girlfriend until a year later but he is now happy, and im the one who is miserable. And now that i look back on it i really feel so horrible for putting him through pain, he delt with it the best he could he started smoking and drinking a lot and i judged him and now i regret doing so. And the thing is i've talked to my current ex-boyfriends girlfriends and she says she doesnt care that he lies cause there relationship is based off lies, i was like what? So there just together for the sake of it, i know hes taken up smoking and maybe drinking since we broke up. But my ultimate question is its just like an on going circle of what goes around comes around hes treating me how i treated my ex previous to him, so do you think the fact that he is doing that will end up being his karma also? or aka him realizing when things dont work out that what i did wasn't so bad compared to what he might go through.Its not that im wishing pain upon him but im just wondering if anyone has seen there ex get karma for breaking up with them/cheating/treating them badly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnooo i dont want to get back with him im asking opinions on if karma will come back to him for treating me that way
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow am i tricking myself? i got exactly what i gave out and now he is dishing it back to me but i could come back to him thats all im saying
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