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I'm 14 and have a question about male sexuality

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Question - (19 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2010)
A female Ireland age 26-29, anonymous writes:

im just curious, does a guy have 2 b hard 2 give a hand job or head?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010):

It's okay to be curious about pleasure. If you want to do oral with your bf then go ahead, half the fun is learning it for yourself. But also don't deny the oral pleasure for yourself too. And don't just let the guys use you and not return the favour. DEMAND IT!! It's amazing having a guy going down on you. Trust me! Better than vibrator or fingers.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010):

No he doesn't have to be hard when you give a handjob or a blowjob, most times they get hard because of doing these things.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (19 February 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntYou are pretty young to need this answer. But curiosity has no age limit. I'm going to have to disagree with Marie. In a normal functioning male an erection accompanies excitement every time. Unless there hasn't been enough time since the last orgasm. If that is the case you can play with him, but you will not likely get him to orgasm, certainly not a ejaculation. Now if you are dealing with a man with erectile dysfunction, it is a whole different story. Due to underlying medical problems he may not achieve a full erection with out help, either medication like viagra, or an appliance like a ring. The rest of the system still works. He can get turned on. The nerves still work. He can even have an ejaculatory orgasm. All of that can happen without him getting "hard". Of course at your age you are not likely to have a partner with that problem. Erectile dysfunction is pretty much an old mans problem. I do wonder if young men with diabetes are affected?

The next question you may ask is how long is the recovery time. Or the time between two orgasms for a man. It varies, and it increases with age. Young men may be ready in an hour. Older men may take 8 or more. And there is no way to predict it withour experience with that individual.

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