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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my fiance for nearly four years. Im very happy with him although we r not havg as much sex as i wud like. We ave discussed this and are working on it. A few months back we wer both at a bday party and so drunk we both cant remember goen home! We r open with eachothet and r ok with a little innocent flirting with the opposite sex as long as it didnt go any further. I told my fiance that nite that i was chatting to a fella and he was chatting me up and tortured me for my mobile number so i gave him it. My fiance said thats ok, as long as u didnt want it to go any further. I said no i didnt. But at the time when i was drunk and very flattered by this other man, i said to him that he shud meet up with me and my frend the followg week as my fiance was goen out that nite too. When i woke up the next morning i felt soo bad as i new, evento if i did meet up with that other man i wouldnt cheat, but i wouldnt even think of wanting to meet with him for a few drinks. Since then my fiance av been trying to spice up our sex life. Should i tell my fiance that i asked the other man to meet up with me- as my fiance mite c this as something further? Or shud i just leave it with wat he does know and continue trying to spice up our sex life? Please let me know what u think i should do thanks x
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reader, Tarawr  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 Flirting is cheating. Flirting will lead to more serious things, like what you are currently doing: asking someone to meet up with you. Stop the flirting, and do NOT meet up with this person. You will regret it.
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reader, Mia Rio +, writes (19 February 2010):
I think that if you arent in contact with this other guy and it genuinly is harmless then there is no point telling your fiancee about it as he might make it more than it was. When your drunk everything always seems like a better idea at the time than it is, so dont worry about it. Personally if i were you i wouldnt say if nothing happened and i didnt intend on ever meeting him (when sober)
hope this helps
Mia
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