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writes:I am confused. I think my pastor may be interested in me, but I'm not really sure. He calls and checks on mne when I don't go to church and he's protective of me and my kids. About one month ago, I came to church for the first time in weeks and he said,"I love you so much." I really didn't know how to take that. On Super Bowl Sunday, I was about to go home when he stopped and asked me where I was going. He asked me to and eat with him and his sisters. I declined because I didn't have the money to go. He told me that he would take care of it, but I said maybe next time. He said we would get together and do our own thing. He left going out of town the other day and I called to tell him to have a safe trip. He told me he was excited about going to eat with me when he returns and he told me that he loved me again before he hung up. We also had an incident where we wound up with our fingers intertwined and he took my other hand and placed it on his forehead. When I spoke to him about it later and apologized, he cut me off, saying that there was nothing wrong with what happened and proceeded to tell me his stance when he doesn't want to be touched. Am I seeing too much into this or is this man showing some interest in me?
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (19 February 2010):
Its possible that he could be interested in you, but its also possible that he shows extraordinary concern for all his *ahem* congregation (halelujah!).
Ok seriously, you should just take it and see it as just a good friendship situation unless he actually makes the first undeniable move. People in church hold hands a lot and also go out on friendly dates a lot, so I would be on the look out for a kiss or something concrete he says. Keep your eye on whether he does this with other women in the church too. I'm sure your church is holy and stuff but I know of many incidents where the young pastors are in relationships with as many as 9 women in the church who ofcourse all adore him because of his position of authority and God's messenger credentials. Be friendly, but alert. If you would love to date him that's great but be on the look out for other women who might feel the same way about him. All the best.
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