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female
age
30-35,
*lex'sbabygirl
writes:Me and Alex have been together for 2 yrs in the second month dating i kissed another guy then around the 6 month i sent some (pics) to a different guy then we went to a club and i danced with sum1 he claims the guy was grabbing me but he wasnt nothing physical ever happened other besides kissing the first guy anyway he paid me back by having sex with and older woman over 6 times she was a friend and he swore to me nothing was going on anyway she decided she wanted him all to herself and while we were at the gas station he went in to get some cigs and she pulled up and pulled me out of the car i ended up beatin the crap out of her and got probation he is always bringing what i did up and im just so tired og it but i love him weve already talked about kids and decided on a wedding date in a few years we've both decided its best to go back to mexico to see our parents before hand but should i forgive him after what i did too or did he go to far?
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reader, Tarawr +, writes (18 February 2010):
 Let me say this: You two are not ready for marriage. You are cheating on one another, and acting like children. Put off the wedding until you get your acts together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): He didn't believe you so he 'got you back' by sleeping with someone else - and not just once either. You are in an abusive relationship. Both of you have been abusive. I can understand your anger towards this woman but I'm sure I don't need to tell you it was wrong. All you have done is shown each other how to 'pay back' the other. You stooped to his level - though it is him you should have been angry with not his fancy woman. I urge you to realise this is a very unhealthy relationship based on power and control - and he is calling the shots. What happens next time a man is friendly towards you...? Does he cheat on you again? It will not end here. You have a chance to put this whole episode behind you and move on. Find a decent man to have children with - not someone who effectively threatens you / has a hold over you by the threat of cheating on you. You are not going to trust him again surely? If you are looking for advice - mine is to get away from him, not forgive him. You both went too far. Now is the time to become the better person. That won't happen in a relationship with him.
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reader, aquamarine  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 Oh dear! Please go your seprate ways love! Its never going to work betweeen you. And it would be a disaster bringing children in to this realtionship, if hes going to cheat on you, and your going to beat the women hes having affair with up then you both really need to seprate for the sakes of your lifes. Im just being honest darling. If you both do stay together for the sakes of your un-born children please wait till you both have sorted yourselfs out.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 February 2010):
End it. This is doomed, I promise you that now. He never forgave you first time around for sending those pics, and now he has one this. This is doomed. End it and move on.
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