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writes:Hello i'm a 32 year old woman and i've been seeing this married man for years. Anyway i love him alot and i do things for him but i dont think he feels the same way, and it hurts. His wife recently called my cell phone and i hung up because i did not know what to say. i felt so bad and i cried because i don't want to hurt her and i really want to leave her husband alone, its just that i love him but i feel like i'm being used for sex. I cry alot because i really want to stop seeing him. I don't know what to think i just wish i was strong enough to let go, he use to treat me like he really loved me but now he acts different. I need help, i know i'm wrong for messing with a married man, i just want to know what to do to let go
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to laura1318 and lexie88 you really helped me alot. and as for ms anonymous i don't think you should give advice i am well aware of who i am and what i did. don't judge me, i admitted to being wrong and i do feel bad thanks for the advice for the ones who werent so judgemental.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): You are the other woman. You are NOT his wife. You are simply a piece of ass. Stop what you are doing and realize how you are impacting his marriage. You are hurting his family for what??? SEX. Find a single man to have sex with. Are you so desperate you cannot find a single man to start a relationship with? What kind of self image do you have to settle for a part-time lover who is only using you? Get some therapy and don't ever engage in an affair again. What goes around comes around, and you WILL get yours. Someday when you are married imagine a woman putting herself out there for your husband. How would you feel?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Cut your losses and move on . There is no future in that kind of relationship.
You have been used by this man and this is enough reason to leave him.
He took advantage of you. Don't waste any more of your time on him.It is over.
If leaving is difficult, try demonize him and you would feel it easier to cut him off.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 You let go when you realize that this man does not love or respect you.
You let go when you realize that you deserve a man who will only committ to you and not cheat on his wife to be with you.
You let go when you realize that he's not good for you, that he's using you and that he will never love you.
You need to be strong enough to walk away. Don't waste another minute on this man. You deserve more but it's up to you to get more...staying around this man will get you nowhere. Come on, leave him, focus on yourself, and get involved with a man who will give you a 100%.
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