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writes:hey guys, i was just wondering if you could help me out here. So im meeting my online girlfriend for the first time in about a week(im going to be careful, cautious, all the good stuff.) I have grown very attached to her, adore her, and want to show her that i care deeply for her, but the problem is, i dont know what to do. Is there anything simple, yet romantic that we could do (sort of surprise her from my behalf), to show her how i feel? Can you guys help me with some ideas?please and thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): you should do something thoughtful... typical things are like going to the movies or going out to eat.i don't know what you have planned, but i can assure you that having a pre-packed picnic of her favorite foods and drinks would be great... depending on where you live, if it's cold outside a picnic in a park wouldn't be the best of ideas. a rose is way too formal, it's nice, but find out what her favorite flower is, getting her that would mean more than getting her a common rose that was probably left over from valentines day anyway.if it is cold outside, offer her your jacket (even if that means you freezing your ... balls off... lol!)if there's snow on the ground, take a blanket (depending on if you're taking your own vehicle... if carrying space is limited, obviously don't.) and go have your picnic somewhere on the snow! make sure it's quiet and peaceful.anywhere with a scene is nice, even if it's just to go walking.natural beauty can do wonders for girls when meeting for the first time, she'll like you even more than she already did and will remember the day for years to come, possibly her entire life!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 Try a single rose or flower that she likes. It says that you care without being so bulky. Otherwise make sure to hug her right when you see her and possibly kiss her, on the cheek if you don't think she would like that. Your body language will say far more then any physical object and since this has been an online relationship your body language will be a whole new experince to her.
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