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writes:So,this girl that im not really too good of friends with but talk to her, she keeps having sex with all these guys in my school. i honestly dont doubt she will get some type of disease from doing it so many times with so many diff. guys! i tell her to stop and save some guys for other girls, but she just keeps doing it. im scared that when i get into the highschool, shell have sex with a lot of guys there too, and i dont want to get a disease. help?? im just scared for the reason that i might date someone she had sex with. Reply to this Question
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (4 March 2010):
r_a_w_r1645 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys... she passed away tho... :[
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 Easy problem to solve.. You ALWAYS USE CONDOM'S when having sex, anyone could be infected with a sexual disease, you can't know just by looking. Pills and implants prevent pregnancy, but only condoms stop sexual disease. You always have sex with a condom. Do not take the condom off untill you at least two years into a relationship and you and your partner have been tested and decide to have children.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (18 February 2010):
 She's not the girl you have to worry about. Sure, she could spread something to a guy you'd date later, but any number of other girls could also be spreading diseases. No matter what guy you date, no matter if he's even met this girl or not, virtually anyone could carry a disease. Period.
The only way to be safe is not to worry about her, but to protect yourself. Date guys that don't sleep around and that avoid easy girls like her. ALWAYS use a condom. Limit the number of partners you're with. Wait and get to know guys before having sex with them. Then get yourself tested every once in a while anyway.
It's like they say, the only 100% sure way to avoid pregnancy or a disease is to avoid sex, but if you're careful, you can reduce the odds.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 February 2010):
Well, what's more worrying is that all these guys are using her. So trust me when I say you won't want to date them anyway. Really get to know a guy, spend time understanding who he is. You'll be fine. And make him work for your attention. If you are worried in the future, always make sure you both get tested before having sex. And don't do it until you're legally old enough either.
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