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30-35,
*ovelovelove
writes:I realized the other day that I'm in love. He's my closest best friend and we have been for about a year, I feel like myself the most when I'm around him. I tell him things I would never tell anyone else. He confessed to me the other night that he used to like me a little in the past, but, he has a girlfriend now and has for the last 5-7 months. He tells me he really really likes her and it breaks me, she's so happy with him too. I want nothing more than to tell him but I just want him to be happy, and I don't want to make things complicated for everyone.Advice anyone?
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reader, snrrao  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 i can understand your feelings. you see the more you hide a secret .the more it will hurt you and this will make you to think more about his as a lover than a friend so blurt it out if he accepts it will be a happy ending. if he rejects your proposal you confess for what you spoke and ask him if you could still be friends . he will definitely for give you if he is your best friend.acting like a friend if you are not looking him friendly is more like betraying him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 February 2010):
He has a girlfriend, so you're aware that you can't be with him. All you can do is make sure you're seeing other people socially, and just having fun for yourself. Focus on your life and just make the best of it. You will get over him, but it will take time.
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