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I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people?

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Question - (18 February 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *olaroid93 writes:

So I'm one of those people whoose always always single, I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people? I've often wondered that it's because I'm a girl with short hair and a flat chest anyone think this could be why?

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A female reader, Polaroid93 United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2010):

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Thanks for all the help guys yeah sorry that q. Was badly worded - I guess my question is a mix if both so I'm glad that was picked up on, i'd just like to add that I'm 18 and feel it may be something to do with boys my age being into very feminine women( which I just don't suit trying to be) as I'm sure you can tell I have spent time thinking about this thanks again x

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (18 February 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI don't understand your question. The way it's worded confused me a bit. Do you mean that there is a stigma attached to being single or that people stigmatize women who are flat chested with short hair?

I don't think that this is the reason you're still single.

Hmmm... if you don't like short hair, have you looked into extensions?

The decent ones are pricey but they're worth it.

You just have to be very picky and make sure you go to a reputable salon.

It can be done... look at Britney... she went from nearly bald to butt length in a few months.

Of course not ALL guys dislike short hair... look at Halle Berry... she's a beautiful movie star.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (18 February 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI don't understand your question. The way it's worded confused me a bit. Do you mean that there is a stigma attached to being single or that people stigmatize women who are flat chested with short hair?

I don't think that this is the reason you're still single.

Hmmm... if you don't like short hair, have you looked into extensions?

The decent ones are pricey but they're worth it.

You just have to be very picky and make sure you go to a reputable salon.

It can be done... look at Britney... she went from nearly bald to butt length in a few months.

Of course not ALL guys dislike short hair... look at Halle Berry... she's a beautiful movie star.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (18 February 2010):

The Realist agony auntThis would only be an issue if you only look for guys in a shallow place like the bar. Otherwise and I don't mean to sound rude but maybe you are hard to approach. For example if you have such a strong confidence level most guys feel challenged. Otherwise the only stigma I would say is that you are happy with life and don't need a man at this point, so nothing negative.

If you want be to go into more detail it would be great to know what you are like around guys you like.

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A male reader, Cowboy255 United States +, writes (18 February 2010):

Tell you the truth I date for the person who they are not looks flat chest don't bother me to bad as I'm not the biggest fan of doubles but the short hair I've never been crazy for but you'll find someone have you really tried dating like asking anyone out

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A female reader, _Katy_Did_ United States +, writes (18 February 2010):

_Katy_Did_ agony auntI'm not really sure what your question is here. Are you asking about the stigma or if your single because you have short hair and a flat chest? In both cases, I'd have to say no. I don't believe there is a stigma against single people. I'm not sure why there would be unless you have noticed that people don't treat you the way you would like because you're single. And no, I don't believe you're single because you have short hair. Look at models! I just don't think you're looking in the right place. You'll find someone.

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