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writes:Thanks for your time i turned 15 a couple months ago and iv never had sex. But i want to try useing a dildo or a viberater. I dont know were to get one? and how old you have to be? plus i think its embarising to buy one at a store. My cousin got grounded for haveing one and i told my mom she said thats stupid and if i want one she would buy me one but i couldnt tell her i do cause that would be awkward haveing her know i do that. im realy confused and i dont want to do any thing with my boyfriend but i keep geting urges. Any help is good i dont know what to do thanks for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Search the internet for a reliable online sex shops, if you have a debit card. Preferably use an online shop that allow paypal transactions. Also, I'd start off with bullet vibrators, not the ones that look like egg, but the ones that kinda look like lipsticks. They're tiny and easy to use. Use them just for clitoral stimulation at first then move up to classic less fancy (and less intimidating/not too huge) vibrators, and then move up to more fancier ones and take it from there. It's a good idea to learn about your body first. 15 is perfectly normal age to experiment with your body. Don't listen to people that say you are too young. I'm a 21 year old girl (just turned 21) and I started masturbating when I was 18s, so I know what I'm talking about. Btw, your mom is totally cool, I wish my mum or sisters were that cool. They found out about mine when I started masturbating (even though I was 18!!) and gave me a huge lecture and threw it away. Then my boyfriend gave me a cute little bullet vibrator as a gift. :p I'd probably be like your mother when I have a daughter. Ask here if you have any more questions! I'd say, maybe, talk to your mum about it too. If you can't then at least you have a few people here that know more about it and can give you sound advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): I think you are too young but maturity levels seem to change every year and fulfilling it with that would be better than going out and getting pregnant.
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reader, HarryFlashman +, writes (18 February 2010):
They sell dildos on Amazon, but I have heard that the best vibrator is the Hitachi Magic Wand, and they sell that all over the place. It's not overtly sexual; you can pretend it's for your neck.
And you really should take your mom up on her offer -- she will get to feel good about it and you won't be sneaking around. There is nothing weird your desire; very normal.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 You mom is quite a special one and its great that she would do that for you. I reccomend taking her up on that offer. All you have to do is look in the phone book for sex shops, there are usually some really nice ones in every city.
Its perfectly natural and trust me your mom will know alot of the stuff that you are going to want to do before you even do it. Its much better if you know how to pleasure yourself before anyone else tries to.
If you really don't want to go with your mom then look the shop up and get a friend or someone to drive you. The people in the store will be a big help if you don't know what you want.
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reader, Polaroid93  +, writes (18 February 2010):
I've wondered about that, I'm 18 and was unsure of the same thing - buy one you'll only regret not having had one the whole time!'
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): I think you are very lucky to have amom that would buy something like that for you. If you have sexual urges, using a toy or pleasuring yourself is the best choice at your age. Stick to your morals and don't have sex until you are ready. A sex toy is better because you don't have to worry about getting pregnant or STDs. Gather up your courage and go ask her :) Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): You should tell your mother. She sounds really cool. You can write her a letter and you don't have to be there when she reads it. Make sure to tell her you are very embarrassed/self-conscious and nervous about her knowing you do that. I think your mother would much rather know you do that than worry about you being out there having sex with someone when you're not ready. And don't be ashamed. Everyone does that.
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