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writes:me and my long term boyfriend had a petty argument,neither would back down. we have our ups and downs,all is fair,we are as bad as each other. i thought i would play a little game to get him jealous,basicaly,i walked past the building site he`s working on with a male friend knowing he would see me. i thought he would react in a way where he would come back. trouble is,he really believes i was seein my male friend. he has refused to speak and seems like he wont listen. i was childish,i know. its backfired on me big time. i just want him in my bed again. what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Give him a couple of days. Then tell him in person what happened. So he can see your sincerity. Tell him you are sorry but are willing to swear nothing happened.
He can also be embarrased if his coworkers saw also. Imagine the awkward looks or questions he got. Explain everything and give him time. The ball is in his court now. Your best option is to apologize and sound mature and sincere.
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reader, df30  +, writes (19 February 2010):
probably not a good move, if he really cares for you and he sees you with some other guy over a petty fight, which im guessin is over something pretty stupid,then hell think "wow thats all that happened and she ran off" yeah he probably doesn't feel very loved after that one. Don't play mind games, just tell him the truth about what you were doing hopefully hell understand.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 February 2010):
Ooops. I think you may have blown it with this one. A lot of women of all ages have tried to make a man jealous, so don't kick yourself too much. It doesn't work sadly, it simply sends us away. I think women seem to think a man will suddenly realize what he's missing. All he thinks is that he's unloved. If won't listen, then try sending him a letter owning up to everything and see what happens. I can't promise it will work, but it's worth a try.
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (18 February 2010):
 Mind games are relationship destroyers! If he won't listen to you...and won't speak to you, then I guess it's over!
Give him some time to cool down and see if he will give you the opportunity to explain the childish game!
If he won't, then move on, and use this blunder as a learning tool in future relationships!
Good Luck!
~BG~
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