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female
age
30-35,
*ovevivi
writes:I met this nice boy who I think is millions of miles out of my league but he insists it's the other way around. I'm just a plain jane who's been told that she's pretty and kind, sorta like a mother. He's one of the very popular types; he's smart, attractive, athletic, kind, etc. Many girls can vouch for this...sadly. He swears day in and day out that I'm his "favorite" and that he does have a crush on me just like how he knows I have one on him too. He does seem to sincerely like me except, for some reason, he will never menion if publically and only mentions another certin girl he knew before me. Once, I tagged him in a facebook photo where I had written that "I 3 him" and while he was ecstatic about it after he saw it, I noticed 5 minutes after he had untagged himself. He also used to ask me to tell him good night on webcam everynight before he left for bed but lately he hasn't (which is fine with me) and instead I see pictures of him and that other friend of his. I feel like I'm the only one who exists when he talks to me and even got extremely upset when I let it slip that I thought he could have lied about liking me. He asked me how he could have been faking the whole time if he even got me a gift (he gave me a gemmed bracelet, certainly not cheap but it's not like he was wearing it anytime soon as he had it from a long tme ago). He also had been with someone when we met but they broke up about a week after that and I felt like I might be that rebound who loves him unconditionally (as a friend, again, only crush, I know it's not love). I mentioned it once and he said that "well I just got out of a relationship."I'm so torn between wanting what seems like the best I'll ever do and listening to him when he says that I deserve better. What's going on? ):
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): Oh girl, what are you doing? You'd seriously let him get away? You're crazy about him, he likes you, and you think that's a bad thing? There's no better relationship than when each person thinks they're the lucky one. Do not let this chance pass.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (18 February 2010):
There is a lot wrong with this. Steer way clear of this guy. He is leading you on and will eventually end up using you for sex. Go with your instincts. It sounds like you know what is going on you just don't want to admit it.
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