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It started as a plan to make my ex jealous, but now I love him!

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Question - (18 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My ex Bf broke up with me because he said i dont put much effort in our relationship then after a day i saw him with his new GF....Then i become depress and desperate to win my EX back but my Ex just keep telling me we are just better of as friends and that He hopes i will find a man better than him... Then out of nowhere theres this Guy.. i know him because he is my bestfriend's ex Bf but they are still friends and they have a good closure on their relationship.. He ask me wats wrong then i open up with him about my ex.. THen he offer himself to help me take revenge for my ex.. he said he is willing to be my fake BF so that my ex will think that i easily recover and that i find a guy better than him.!...atfirst i dont want to do it becoz i still want my ex back but then i realize how stupid i am to still want him..then i agree with this guy's plan... He keeps on posting on my profile that he loves me... just like what lovers do.. Then i totally recovered with my ex..but now i think im inlove with that guy...i dont know if he loves me back i dont know it it was just a part of the plan to say how he loves me or he really mean it... But when we have a private conversation on MSN we still calling names like baby and we still saying i love you even if my ex wouldnt see that conversation.....i never ask him of what is the real score of our relationship because im afraid he is just being nice and he only sticks to the plan.... but i thank him because of helping me...he said i dont have to thank him because he just do it because im important to him..?

hm,.. pls help me..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank You very much for your advice :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2010):

If you really like this other guy, tell him. If you don't ask, you'll never know how he feels. I think you might find that if he was willing to say all those things, he might like you more than he's letting on.

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A male reader, gigi_fire India +, writes (18 February 2010):

gigi_fire agony auntDear Friend,

"What you never ask, You shall never get".

There was this girl in my class who i thought was didn't like me at all. 5 years later we met and she told me so and i felt like a total dork.

Don't you think i would be better if you got things clarified as soon as possible. If you are in love with him why don't you start out by going for a movie together. You can tell him that it is your way of saying thank You for all the wonderful things you have done for me. You could use this as an opportunity to find out about how he feels about you.

Have a little faith in yourself and try this out and do let us know what happened.

Best of Luck!!

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