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writes:this is a bit of a rude question but im really curious to know what it feels like to recieve oral sex. can anybody describe it. does it feel weird? im worried i wont like it. im a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have done everything else and now she wants to go a step further. i really want to do it but im a little nervous about it. neither of us have done it before and im also worried i wouldnt do it right. im also a little paranoid about her seeing me that close up....im embarrassed just thinking about it. is there anything i can do to help me relax? i really do want to do it.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 Every act related to sex; from oral, to cuddling, to hugging... need intimacy, familiarity, till then sex remain as curiosity of mind. With love, mind became mature and able to taste of life...not only sex.
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reader, Chantelle x +, writes (20 February 2010):
 The thing is the first time may be weird and alittle strange and embarrassing as you may not have seen each other that close up before, but as you are both new to it, you can help one another to make it great. That is exactly the same for many people as obviously different people like it different ways but you just learn from the experience and also from each other. Good luck xx
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reader, Tarawr  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 It might feel weird at first. When my boyfriend and I got together, I was a complete virgin; never did a single thing, even kissing. When he gave me oral sex, it wasn't very pleasurable at all, but now it's great, and it's my favorite thing to do.
It's something you have to kind of grow to like, I think.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (18 February 2010):
 it is normal to be nervous or worried about doing this for the first time, trust me everyone is, i certainly was! Well it does feel different to other things but not weird, it feels good. ideas to relax would be to put each other at easy with lots of foreplay like kisses and things so you feel more comfortable, i hope that helps but if there is anything else at all you want to know or ask please please do =] x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): If you trust each other you'll be fine. Tell her you're worried. Make each other feel better about it. She might feel just as worried as you do!
And as for how it feels... some people like it (it tends to be a majority but you never knw for sure) and some people don't. It's one of my favourite sexual experiences and it always feels really good. I get concerned about my boyfriend seeing me that close too. But I soon forget to worry and focus on how good it feels instead. :)
Don't worry about not liking! it's just the same with everything else. Try it and if you don't like it, you never have to do it again!
As for actually performing oral sex on another girl... you just have to practise! Find out what each other likes. Neither of you have done it so you're both new. Don't be so nervous and just have fun with it instead. :) As long as you're not too shy to tell each other what feels good and what feels bad things will be okay.
Just relax, and take it slowly and you'll be fine!
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