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female
age
30-35,
*lexis**
writes: recently everything has ben realy crazy. a friend of mine died, i broke up w/ my on/off bf of over a yr for what will be the last time. my moms bf was beating her and she just told me and , both my parents drinking has gotten worse (even if they were already drunk nightly). and my friend found out shes pregnant, and im trying to help her.my ex has tried2 make up w/ me but i knew hes not sorry.i told him i hated him and i cant forgive him. hes left me alone this week...im trying to move on. my friend is trying to hook me up w/ a friend of his. he seems sweet and we always are looking at eachother from across the room in class we have together.im ready and i want to move on. shouldnt i give this guy a chance?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 February 2010):
Slow right down. There is a lot going on in your life right now, and you really need to sit down and think about what you want. First up, you are right to leave your ex in the past. He has hurt you and is never worth another moment. But there just seems to be a lot going on, and it might be better for you just to spend time alone really focusing on yourself. If you truly believe that you're ready, then by all means give this new guy a chance. But just take your time and really think about what you want.
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