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writes:i apologise for the long story but ive cut it down quite a bit. when i was little my mam and dad spilt up and they both moved away, i moved in with my grandparents and lived there for about 16 years, i visited both parents and my mam still had a say in everything i did. ive been friends with a group of people for years but my mother doesnt like them so she tells me not to see them, my dad agrees with her because they are all 1 year older than me, me and my best friend started dating, we dated for a year and then because my mam found out and i had to move into hers 100 miles away, we keep in touch, and every time i go to visit my grandparents i see him and theres feelings because weve been friends for years i throught i loved him, he calls me every week to cheak up though weve been apart for 2 years, im going to visit my grandparents in the next couple of weeks and we both really want to get back together, but i dont know what to do about my mam and how it will work. i need some advise please!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 February 2010):
You are over 18, you can make your own decisions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): you don't have to tell her, even if she asks and knows you lied... you're over 18, and it's your life. when you're 30 are you still going to let your mom tell you what you can and can't do? i don't think so. you're an adult and you need to make adult decisions for yourself, that's the only way you're going to find out what life is all about. you can tell her that too. she might be upset, but in time she'll respect that you want to be your own person.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (18 February 2010):
Since you are over 18 you don't have to tell her; surely you can just date him without telling her.
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reader, Mandy101  +, writes (18 February 2010):
Hun, if you love him and he loves you, there should nothing be stoping you. Theres and age difference of 1 year, thats nothing compared to most. Tell your mam how you feel and ask your grandparents or your dad to take u in snd be with him. your old enough to get your own place and start a life! do it go live up there and be happy. hope it helps u decide
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