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I let her have the brunt of my feelings and I shouldn't have done it. How can I make amends?

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Question - (1 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *oviefan writes:

I had a really bad night last night because of some family problems and our car broke down out in the cold afterward. When i finally got home it was too late to study when for the test for collage i have coming up and i basically went to bed with a heavy mind.

I remember waking up in the middle of the night and messaging someone still really upset on facebook, basically unloading a bunch of emotions on them. Well i didn't remember half of what i felt or typed last night and i woke up this morning with the message resent to me and the target steaming about it. It seems like i really let her have it, i basically sent her a message saying how much it hurt she rejected me in a very heartless way in a heartless message. She pretty much hates me now even tho most of it i do feel was right but delivered completely wrong.

I dont really feel bad but at the same time i do and i dont think she is ever going to talk to me. I sent her a sorry message but i dont think thats going to fix this. I was at my peak of anger, depression, and loneliness last night it ended up making me pop on someone.

Any ideas?

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A female reader, curious0hot United States +, writes (2 February 2010):

curious0hot agony auntAll you can do is explain the situation to her, and hope she understands.

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A female reader, girl from bristol United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

hi just explain that you were under a lot of stress you did not mean what you said and apologize again say you feel bad about it and you dont want to lose contact with the person

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

Hey, you should really go to her and say ur sorry, it's much more likely she'll forgive u that way, and tell her how you felt and ask her how she feel... but u don't want to be with her right? then just say sorry after the things above and walk away... :)

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