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writes:A lot has happened in my life lately, i lost my father 6 months ago, my boyfriend dumped me three weeks ago for someone else and is now wanting me back, which is hard as i still have feelings for him, and i am having trouble paying off my debts (my own doing) and i feel like i just dont know which way to turn.i get up on mornings thinking yet another day, i spend evenings alone and i know now that this cant go on.i have a few friends who i can talk to and they do listen but feel now that they are fed up of me and my problems.i know i need to make some changes but i just do not know how to do it.i know there is no magic cure, but does anybody have any words of wisdom? like a mother would give?
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (2 February 2010):
With my problems, what helped me was reading The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. I think you can get a copy from the library or second hand for $4 including shipping on Amazon. You cant change your circumstances but you can change your attitude. And it starts with gratitude for what you do have. Imagine the recent Haiti earthquake; there was one report where a woman lost her husband, 3 kids, her home and all her worldly possessions. That's a story replicated by thousands. If you were advising these people what would you tell them? Take your own advice. This is an opportunity for a new beginning for you.
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reader, eddie1000  +, writes (2 February 2010):
everything is going to be fine just pick your self up and get started on making things better in your life i know losing your father was difficult but he would want you to be happy so start by thinking positive always. your exboyfriend dumped you so let him discover what he lost and make sure that he is going to be something good and positive in your life if not then losing him may leave space for someone that will value having you in their life remember loving yourself and being satisfied with you first is the key and usually everything else will fall in line i hope i helped you and good luck
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