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Why can filing for divorce be so hard?

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Question - (1 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2010)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

Why is it so hard to file for divorce when you know you don't love that person, but still care for them? Yet you both need to move on in life. It's such an ugly thing, the paperwork, serving the summons. It sickens me to even think about, yet living with a man who I have nothing in common with, and don't have sexual feelings for is also something I cannot bring myself to do. I thought after a seperation, it would get easier to come to terms with the process of a divorce. But it is the most difficult thing. Maybe because he's done nothing wrong; we just want different things out of life. What do other people do when they need to rise above their senseless emotions?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

Hi i am in your situation. 3 years separated. No one else was involved, we just ran out of road. We have decided as neither want to remarry, we arent going to divorce, just live our own lives and be friends for the childrens sake.

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A female reader, girl from bristol United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

hi i think you should do a seperation first this will give you time to get used to being apart in time you will be ready for a divorce

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