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I want her back...how do I tell her this?

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Question - (1 February 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *JP writes:

I dated a girl few years ago but we broke up shortly after. We've been friends since but I want to go out with her again. How do I tell her I want her back?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

ok if she dated u befor it mean she liked u but if u broke up with her there is a bigger chance she might come back cuz she didnt want to end the realationship u did........if she broke up with u than there is bigger chance she doesnt u back it depends on the girl.also take in the fact that u two r still friends hope i helped

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (1 February 2010):

Griffo agony auntJust ask her on a date and spend alone time with her, be nice, and the heart and time will do the rest.

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A male reader, TeXas26 United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

TeXas26 agony auntIf she isnt currently in a relationship, just start asking her to go out on weekends and other ways to spend more and more time with her (but remember dont ask her to go to ten different things a week) just steadly ask more and more often and after a couple of weeks tell her you have been having a great time with her recently and ask her if she would consider dating again

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

well you already dated her so you dont need an icebreaker or anything. just ask her to do things dont call them dates and dont go to dinner of anything. Dance silly, go to the mall and play tag, something like that fun and wont let her feel pressed. You want her notice on her own that you are a great fun guy, and she will eventually give off the signals she is interested.

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A female reader, dorothy2342 United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

dorothy2342 agony auntTell her, I had so much fun with you when we were dating, I would really love to start going out with you again. How do you feel about getting back together. It's not that difficult to tell someone how you feel, just be prepared for her answer. If she say's no, then tell her your sorry she feels that way, but to let you know if her feelings change in the near future. Then move on, I wouldn't wait. I guess friendship is a option if you are willing to settle for it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

Oh how I wish this was my ex-boyfriend! We dated a few years ago for a very short time, and I regret breaking up with him. If you're friends, then obviously you talk, hang out, and are friendly terms. Why don't you suggest hanging out just the two of you? Just talk to her about it. Who knows, maybe she feels the same way? All you can do is give it a shot, and hope it works out.

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