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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6months and definitely love her. There is a recurring issue that comes up when we are in social / party situations and we have had a bit to drink. She thinks I change and dont act the same way as when we are alone.I often cant tell I'm acting any different / cant tell she is not happy but she says I am subconsciously dismissive of her, short and dont pay her enough attention. I dont really like being soppy with people in public and have been used to my ex-girlfriend not having this issue. Any advice on things I need to take more notice of / change as she finds it hard to express how I change?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): Drink less when you are at a party with her. Drink as much as you want to when you're not with her. Try to always have her next to you when at a party and hold her hand and grab her a lot. Also, try to flirt with her even though you are drunk and she already knows you love her. Being publicly courted feels great, no matter how long the two of you have been together.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2010):
Stop drinking as much and pay her more attention. That's about it.
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reader, Jezebella  +, writes (1 February 2010):
All this means is your gf feels uncomfortable around drunk people. I think that the only thing u have to pay a little more attention to is her @ a party dont forget her. And if ur truely in love w/ her then it shouldnt matter how u act in public.
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