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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend that has been around for 22 years. We have dated strongly for 3 years, split up then both of us married other people. Since our divorces, we have dated strongly off and on for several months at a time. Now I am invited to be his date to his daughter's wedding. I am really in love with this person but he seems to not (in my mind) want to take our relationship anywhere. He is here at any time I need anything, and I mean anything.... But there is this other guy that is really interested in me but the feeling is not as strong as the first. Should I give up on the first because maybe nothing is ever gonna happen and try the second or should I just be patient for a little while longer. I really don't know what to do. Any advice....
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Tell him in a sexy, friendly, non threatening way that if this relationship is not going anywhere then you dont know if you want to continue it. Women often make the mistake of being afraid to give an ultimatum, but there is a way you do it without the guy thinking he is talking to a mean demanding b*tch. It has worked for me recently. Ofcourse a reasonable amount of time has to have passed and 3 years is long enough. Wait till after the wedding.
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