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*izzie wooly
writes:there was this guy who was a year younger than me in school but age wise only 6 months. ever since i saw him i fancied him then when he started noticing me he was messing around pretending to love me and stuff (i think it was pretend any way) . then when i started my last year of my high school i finally pucked up the courage to ask him out and he said yes. one of the first things he said to me was that he thought that i would dump him after the first 2 weeks. for the first week all was well i told him everything, spent all my time with him when for some reason he didnt want to speak to me any more. i just thought he was upset so i went to talk to him and he just walked away from me. i just thought i should leave it for the day. the next day at dinner he came to sit with me and he was talking to me but i was giving him the silent treatment like he did to me so he stormed of and then after the 2 weeks he dumped me. :( . now every time i see him or come near him i go all shy but then i get really loud to make sure he notices me he talks to me and i talk back but i really want him back so bad it ended to soon. what should i do.
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reader, curious0hot  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 I think that all you can do is ask him if he wants to try again. Ask him when he is alone, and in a casual way. It is not uncommon for relationships to be rather immature and short at this age range. If he says no, then look at other options. I'm sure there are a lot of nice boys at your school :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2010):
If a man hurts you, don't do the silent treatment. It doesn't work. Women think the silent treatment teaches a lesson. It just makes us more confused. Always say that you're unhappy if you're unhappy. We understand that more than the silent treatment. As for this boyfriend of yours, clearly given his reaction to you, he just wasn't ready for a relationship. He's still too immature if he acts this way. Let him go.
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