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writes:Well me my girlfriend we been dating for about a month and couple weeks now. Our relationship is great it's going by good I love her a lot, but when I ask her how much she loves me she said she only loves me a little. From a scale from 1 to 10 one meaning the worst and ten meaning the best. From a 1 to 10 scale my love for her its a 9 and her love for me is a 3. Is there anyway or anything I can do to make her love for me raise or go up? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (1 February 2010):
 Theres nothing you can do really, love grows over time and I think I'd be more worried if she was head over heels with you after such a small amount of time.
Just hang in there and take things slow. Show her what a lovely person you are and hopefully by this time next year you'll both be on 1000/10 :) x
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (1 February 2010):
 Oh Honey a 3 isn't a very nice thing to say. Ok you like her but don't get too clingy. Keep your distance a bit, be less available, let her do a bit of the chasing. Be cool around her and just not too interested. If she thinks you are no longer so keen your rating will go through the roof.
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reader, visione +, writes (1 February 2010):
 You shouldn't have to work that hard to make someone 'love' you. Relationships involve two people who appreciate each other - how can you have a relationship with someone who just likes you a little bit? 3 is so low on the scale!Maybe it's too early since you said only a month, maybe she's not quite comfortable with you yet. Or you two just aren't fit for each other. Wait awhile and see.Does she still enjoy spending time with you, talking to you, and making you feel special?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2010):
There isn't at all. And for her to say that was cruel. Why would she go out with you if she felt like that? Maybe take more time getting to know her and see if it slowly comes, but if it doesn't, you might just as well leave. there is no point being with someone who doesn't' love you or care for you.
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