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writes:First thing first, i'm complely straight, i love girls yet i seem to to have what i call "gay moments" meaning i catch myself staring at a guy, Is there something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Looking in admiration or even envy is completely normal and probably close to 100% of people do this. But if you feel a fleeting attraction for guys then you might want to google the Kinsey scale. This theory by Dr Kinsey basically states that very few people are completely gay or completely straight. The other 80% of the population has varying degrees of hetero/homosexuality, ranging from incidental/fleeting to bisexual. So you are probably normal, dont worry about it.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with you at all. Its the same thing as girls checking out other girls say to comment on their look or as a comparison to themselves.
I admit to checking out guys wishing I could pull off that look or wanting the their body type. You could also be looking at them to see the girls that they are with.
We are brought up in a comparison soceity so don't feel bad when you do it. I gaurantee you that more guys (and girls) do it then are willing to admit it.
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