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My boyfriend moved to another country and I have to initiate all the contact. Should I try to let go?

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Question - (20 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2010)
A female Hungary age 36-40, *ugul writes:

Hello guys .

I was in a relationship with a guy .i met him last year .but 4 months ago he left to usa with his family .

when he left at first he was so kinder .and used to call me and he used to say that i wanna come back there and be with you . but now he doesnt .and even doesnt give me a message in internet .and its just me that always call him .and try to know if he is ok.

kind of think that he is ignoring me .

should i forget all about him ?

or should i continue to call him ?

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A female reader, gugul Hungary +, writes (20 April 2010):

gugul is verified as being by the original poster of the question

you are right guys .its just need some times .hope i can make it sooner .

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A female reader, gugul Hungary +, writes (20 April 2010):

gugul is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you so much guys .

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThis relationship has run it's course and there is nothing more to keep it going.

A one sided relationship will never work and it is best that you forget him .

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (20 April 2010):

Denise32 agony auntWell, it takes two to maintain any relationship, be it a boyfriend-girlfriend one, or just two friends.

Perhaps next time you call him you could make one more attempt to let him know you would like for HIM to get in touch with YOU, and that you feel its become rather one-sided. Then see what he says, and see whether or not he does start sending messages or phoning.

If he does not, you may well begin to resent that you're the one always calling him, and decide to forget it. Long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain in any case.

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