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Painful sex, is there something wrong with me?

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Question - (20 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2010)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i had sex for the first time when my bf fingered me it was so painful but i never had any pain wen i did that to myself.when we had sex it was painful i couldn't feel anything but pain but my bf says that he liked it a lot.

and when he went down it was still more painful.whats wrong?i dont seem to enjoy sex whats wrong is it me or him?his penis is small alright but he does it even very slowly.but he says tht he felt my vagina wet inside.will i get pregnant?is there anything wrong?

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A female reader, Tashie08 United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2010):

first and foremost, if you used protection, then it's very doubtful that you are pregnant, if you didnt then it's possible so make ure you kep an eye on your cycle and pehaps talk o family planning clinic about ti, they ca help you there. Secondly, I remember my firs time and it certainly wasnt he greatst in the world, it was actuallyquie painful!!mos girl first time is quite painful so don' worry. the best advice i can give you, is relax and tae your time. if ou aretense,nervous etc it ill make it wose, so seriously, relax and have fun. Perhaps try different positions to see what works best, so experiment, and good luck!!x

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A female reader, toniaa United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2010):

toniaa agony aunthi there

i think you should go to your doctor and explain the pain you are getting when you and your boyfriend have sexual intercourse. everybody is very different when having sex after the first time. you should try things on urself for a while and then try it with your boyfriend again to see if you still get pain. but i really would go to the doctor and see if you dont want to do things on urself get back to me

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